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Massage is already pleasant and soothing when done in the conventional way, however, when it has a more intimate character and sexual purpose, it can be above all a bonus to spice up the relationship and strengthen the bonds between the couple.

There are several types of erotic massage, tantric massage as for example, but all seek to pleasure and relaxation preliminary to sex with sensual movements precisely, ideal for this purpose.

The following gives you tips with everything you need to know to learn to do erotic massage and spice things up

How to make an erotic massage?

Before starting the erotic massage is necessary to plan for all the details are perfect, after all keep engaging and seductive atmosphere from start to finish is paramount for unforgettable moments.

Fátima Moura, fri coach, creator of lingerie and pioneering tea in Brazil in courses and lectures on sex and sensuality area, remember that it is important to bear in mind that the purpose of this type of massage is to excite and not relax, and she is a intense exchange of energy, it is important to note that you should only do it when you are feeling well.

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If you are in one day "more or less", leave for another time.

Another important tip of Fatima is not to interrupt the contact as soon as you touch your partner, not to cut the energy exchange.

Erotic massage step by step

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  1. Lay the person being massaged with his back on the comforter;
  2. kneel between her legs, put a little oil on the hands and slide them into each other gently to warm them. Then close your your partner's body hands (a);
  3. Start climbing the outside of the legs with circular motion to the knees and back with your hands inside, without forgetting the feet;
  4. Up the hands to the thigh to the groin (without touching the penis / vagina), always up on the outside and back inside;
  5. Follow with a massage with the same circular motion, chest and arms;
  6. Dribble a little drink in his body (a) and lick gently. Make affection on his face, hair ... take the time to give the fruits that are separate. Use the imagination;
  7. Pour a little oil on your breasts (or chest) and massage the other with your body.
  8. While sliding her hands over his body (a), go kissing the breasts (or chest), the belly and continue down the lips until it reaches the pelvic area.
  9. Finish the massage starting an oral sex with calm and gentleness and abusing sensual movements with his tongue.
  10. To feel the partner's arousal (a) increasing it's time to enjoy the benefits of massage turning the hot foreplay in a pleasant and prolonged sex with energy vibrating upstairs.

Despite the erotic massage has the same structure for him and her, men and women have different erogenous zones and the excitement can be enhanced when these distinctions are taken into account. Here are some special tips to raise the level of your massage and enhance the enjoyment of you and your partner.

Massage in man: Special tips

  • Start the massage by the feet, seated between the legs of your partner must be lying looking at you. Place one of his feet on her breast and massage the fingertips to slide your hands gently by the inner part of his leg to the groin without touching the penis.
  • Then sit on his lap and do sit too so that both are facing each other. Wrap your legs about his hips and with the help of a moisturizer candle or an edible oil massage his chest with circular movements and intense.
  • To increase the excitement, stay here with a robe or any other piece of clothing that you can keep ajar, causing further partner. Sit on the Indian position, with legs crossed, and lay his head on your partner about them so that you can make eye contact and that his view is the partially revealed their breasts and your face. This is a great time to offer fruit or any other element to whet the palate. Then descend hands at chest or legs, even without touching the penis, so that her breasts rest against his face.
  • Use cooking oil is a simple way to increase pleasure. Apply to partner the abdomen or any other area and then remove your tongue.
  • Do not be afraid to have fun with accessories. Plumas, special candles and gels can be used to take your partner wild with little touches and movements.
  • With your partner lying face down, apply gel or cream to massage her breasts and on his back and go alternating massage with your hands and with your body.
  • Take advantage of special oils for the intimate region and finish massaging the penis from your partner with gentle movements, but intense.

Massage in women: Tips to hit in touch

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  • Start with the back of his partner, sitting on her hip apply oil throughout the spine and massage with circular movements, through the arms and going to the base of the spine.
  • Sit down lower on calves or thigh partner, and take time to massage the buttocks and down her movements to the inside of her legs.
  • Then turn your partner so that it is lying on her back, massaging with circular movements of the belly to her breasts, kissing and caressing her nipples at the end.
  • With your partner lying on the previous position, take one leg and massage the feet to the thighs and then repeat the process with the language, and may even end with an oral sex from then.
  • Position yourself between her thighs and start massaging the inside of the legs to reach the hips. Use your fingers to play with the big lips partner to reach the clitoris, while the other hand massages the breasts.

Massage in the bath step by step

  1. Begin by preparing the environment. Rose petals, incense and scented candles will give a romantic mood and seductive to the bathroom.
  2. If you have a bath, prepare a bath with oils and salts that help in the excitement by smell. If not, no problem. Invest in soft sponges and creamy foams to lather the partner (a).
  3. strategically place some fruits and drink near the box to use during the massage. Place the water in a pleasant temperature, put a sensual music and start undressing her partner (a).
  4. Unbutton his clothes (a) with calm and take time to caress the body parts that will be revealed while following the rhythm of the music.
  5. Spread foam over his body (a) from head to foot with help of sponge. Take the opportunity to use the fruit or drink at that time.
  6. Run your hands over his body and then use a sponge to lather all over his body. When you get in the private parts, get a little more time to give more pleasure.
  7. With his hands remove the foam from his body (a) and dry with a soft towel. With the lure of climate in the air, take the time to let your imagination flow for whatever comes.

Accessories and products for use imagination

Get inspired in our selection of products to make your moments of intimacy and pleasure even more exciting.

Perfumed Candle INTT for R $ 49, 90 in the Pleasure Shop

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Perfumed Candle INTT for R $ 49, 90 in the Pleasure Shop

Kit Sensual Edible for $ 32.90 at Hot Pepper Fri Shop

Kit Sensual Edible for $ 32.90 at Hot Pepper Fri Shop

Vibrator Net Tok Shock Grape by R $ 15.20 in Erosmania

Vibrator Net Tok Shock Grape by R $ 15.20 in Erosmania

Scented petals Aphrodisiac for R $ 14,16 in Milli

Scented petals Aphrodisiac for R $ 14,16 in Milli

Flavor Iced Acai with Guarana by R $ 12.90 in Hidden Desire

Flavor Iced Acai with Guarana by R $ 12.90 in Hidden Desire

Pluma Seductive by R $ 119.90 in Hot Pepper Fri Shop

Pluma Seductive by R $ 119.90 in Hot Pepper Fri Shop

Syrup Brigadier Edible for $ 14.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Syrup Brigadier Edible for $ 14.90 in the Pleasure Shop

No erotic massage will be complete if you do not invest in products and special accessories for the occasion. You can find it in the market today, so sharpen your imagination strolling the shops fri. You will always find some surprise.

Secrets to spice up erotic massage

The fri coach Fátima Moura explains that a wide variety of rings can be used during the massage. One can use their hands, body and a multitude of accessories. Fatima also remember also that before starting the massage, there is a whole preparation to be held. From the moment you choose where you will achieve it, you must prepare the environment to awaken the five senses. Check out other secrets you need to know to spice up the massage.

  • Put a duvet on the floor and some rose petals (remember to use artificial petals as you run the risk of staining);
  • Surround the place where the person being massaged will lie with pillows to keep the atmosphere of coziness. also put a pillow to support the head so that the person can see it while massaging;
  • Put some place by scented candles (whether the bedroom, living room, etc.);
  • Have at your fingertips during the massage, a tray with some red fruits and glasses with a noble beverage (white wine, champagne, liquor, etc.) to treat your taste buds;
  • In sensual massage or erotic, there is no single point or just a few that should receive attention; whole body should be massaged.
  • Choose a light music, new age style. It will create all weather to involve the couple.
  • Do not forget to use creatively accessories and products exist to make the funniest joke. Oils, candles that melt but not burn, edible creams, down, erotic data and other items can make everything more interesting.
  • Put more oil on the hands when necessary, but always keeping one hand on the person's body. To put the oil, turn your palms up, keeping the back of the hand in contact with the skin of another.

4 videos to learn and become expert on the subject

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Use all the techniques combined with your imagination to strengthen the bonds between you and the person you love. The erotic massage is more than a way to relax your partner, it is also a way of showing affection, love and care, keeping alive longer the flame of passion in your relationship.