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Although still a taboo, masturbation has proven to be an extremely healthy activity and suitable for women. She approaches the woman to sexuality and your body, allowing it to know what gives pleasure.

In this sense, one of the allies to practice is the vibrator. Possessing several models to different stimuli, with sizes, prices and varied uses, it is easy to find one that suits the woman needs. There are even vibrators lipstick shape, you can put in the bag and quietly take anywhere you want.

What few people know is that his initial purpose was not exactly be a sex toy. "The vibrator was created in the 19th century to help patients who had symptoms such as anxiety and melancholy - associated symptoms, at the time, to hysteria. Soon, their first use was therapeutic. Over the years he took pleasure object function "says sexologist Márcia Mathias portal AshleyMadison.com.

And contrary to what one might think at times, its use is not difficult, harmful or dangerous. Investing in a good product, you can find the vibrator pleased that for some women the penetration does not provide.

If you have never tried using one and still get tired having to use only your fingers to stimulate bet on an "electronic friend" and you will not regret. Check out the following relevant information that will help you in choosing the ideal vibrator.

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5 great reasons to invest in a vibrator

  1. It stimulates the inner region, helping you to train your body to have more orgasms;
  2. Help the woman to know her body, her sexual rhythm and understand where more delights;
  3. It is a great option for days when you're tired for a "complete" sex, but still want to have pleasure;
  4. It can be considered a great ally of the "lonely quickie", being an agile way to relax at any time with masturbation;
  5. It can also be used for two, in a relationship, either to vary the couple's sex life or to explore new sensations.

Vibrator x dildo: the difference?

Paula Aguiar, president of the Brazilian Association of Market Companies Erotic and sexy, explains that the main difference is that, in general, the prostheses that mimic the shape of the penis does not have vibration, while the vibrator always has this characteristic.

Another detail is that the vibrators mostly have a more curved shape, ideal to follow the curves of the female body, and not to refer to the phallic shape, according to the president of ABEME. However, today there are products on the market that mix the two characteristics: the penis shape and function vibrate. Thus, the choice between the two is at the discretion of the woman.

How to use vibrator?

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The use depends on each type of vibrator. The clitoral use, for example, should be placed on the clitoris and the exact position adjusted as the point that is more pleasurable. Already vaginal and anal penetration depend. Therefore, the recommended in such cases is to use lubricant and even condoms.

It is important to clean the vibrators with antibacterial soap or with the product suggested in the device's user manual. Remembering always that the electrical part, such as cables and batteries can not be wet. The good news is that today there are already vibrating waterproof for use even at bath time.

There is very secret to the use of vibrators, the tip is to look for the point and the position you are more comfortable and enjoyable for you and also follow the specific guidelines of your vibrator type in the manual.

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The three main types of vibrators

Vibrators are produced in very different models and uses, and may even merge the use of one another, depending on the features. So it is difficult to classify them in closed groups. But, in general, one can say that they are categorized by the specific location of the massage, check out:

clitoral use

Vibrator for clitoral type capsule or bullet with control. R $ 58 at the Shop Hidden Desire

Vibrator for clitoral type capsule or bullet with control. R $ 58 at the Shop Hidden Desire

The clitoral vibrators are use vibrators that do not require penetration. They should be placed on the clitoris, according to the part where you feel more pleasure. Some people prefer to use the vibrator moving it and who let it just stopped doing their job in the place where you positioned it. The use varies greatly from person to person. In this group, there are even vibrators with fun shapes such as lipstick format, and models with beautiful prints and bright colors. In these models, what matters most is the battery life or the load, and the intensity of the vibration and / or pulse.

vaginally

Vibrator massager for internal use of G-spot R $ 69.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Vibrator massager for internal use of G-spot R $ 69.90 in the Pleasure Shop

For vaginal use, you can choose between simple vibrators, with format that favors the penetration and dildos penis-shaped, simulating the male sexual organ, as well as other models, including those with an extra device to massage the clitoris during penetration. To choose a vaginal vibrator use is ideal attend to a model that is comfortable for you and that is made in a material for internal use safely.

anal use

anal plug with vibrator. R $ 141.90 Click on Fri Shop

anal plug with vibrator. R $ 141.90 Click on Fri Shop

The anal vibrators are devices to massage the anal area that work similarly to vibrators penetration, but its shape is a little shorter and is especially designed to give pleasure to this body part.

Regardless of the model chosen, the use of the vibrator and penile prostheses vary according to what women want, or the couple. After all, their use can also be made to two, to make the moment even more excited. Therefore, it pays to try different models and go gradually discovering what pleases you at the last minute or during masturbation.

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Where to buy the Internet vibrator discreetly

In general, online fri-shops are a good option for those who want to buy a sex toy with discretion. The packages are neutral and some also offer the advantage of not appear the name "fri shop" on your card statement. So it is important to check these details in the store you choose to do your shopping.

Eliane Said, Adviser of intimate products brand Lelo gives a tip for those who want to buy a vibrator without error ". Choose a boutique lingerie and / or erotic that inspire you trust"

The consultant also advises that it is very important to choose products with materials compatible with the human body, ie with silicone medical degree and plastic without harmful chemicals and have assurance in Brazil.

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"As for the models purchased for the first time, choose following his instinct. Talk openly with the consulting boutique, they certainly indicate you know the right way to be happy 'suggests the expert.

Remember also that, when the choice should be considered in addition to the type of use, product practicality to: if it has remote control, whether it is wired or wireless, using battery or are rechargeable, battery life if the format is ergonomic and easy to use, if it has vibration, pulsation, rotation, among other features that can make a difference.

See the gallery some options vibrators devices that online stores in Brazil offer:

vibrating capsule for clitoris Neon Luv Touch for $ 46.90 on the Pleasure Shop

vibrating capsule for clitoris Neon Luv Touch for $ 46.90 on the Pleasure Shop

vibrating capsule for clitoris with wireless controller for $ 189.90 in the Pleasure Shop

vibrating capsule for clitoris with wireless controller for $ 189.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Soft Touch vibrator for clitoral Passione by R $ 104.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Soft Touch vibrator for clitoral Passione by R $ 104.90 in the Pleasure Shop

vibrating capsule for Lelo Lily clitoris for R $ 514.90 Click on Fri Shop

vibrating capsule for Lelo Lily clitoris for R $ 514.90 Click on Fri Shop

clitoris external vibrator Lipstick for $ 57.99 at Bella Boutique

clitoris external vibrator Lipstick for $ 57.99 at Bella Boutique

Clitoral vibrator Butterfly wearing panties as for R $ 62.50 in Those Things

Clitoral vibrator Butterfly wearing panties as for R $ 62.50 in Those Things

Vibrator to massage the G-spot for S $ 59.90 on the Hidden Desire

Vibrator to massage the G-spot for S $ 59.90 on the Hidden Desire

double vibrator to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris for R $ 748 in the Hidden Desire

double vibrator to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris for R $ 748 in the Hidden Desire

Rotary vibrator Rabbit (penetrates and stimulates the clitoris) for R $ 79.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Rotary vibrator Rabbit (penetrates and stimulates the clitoris) for R $ 79.90 in the Pleasure Shop

Plug anal vibrator in Hidden Desire

Plug anal vibrator in Hidden Desire

Cyber ​​Skin Penis vibrator for R $ 98.90 in Those Things

Cyber ​​Skin Penis vibrator for R $ 98.90 in Those Things

It is "normal" use vibrator? sexologist explains

The sexologist and consultant Márcia Mathias discusses are some of the main doubts about the female vibrator use: "When entering a shop fri, every woman is impressed with the variety of vibrators. Basically they are divided into two types:. External stimulators (bullets - small and easy to carry, has function of stimulating the clitoris) and internal stimulators (which in addition to stimulating the clitoris, make vaginal penetration) "

"These were more known after the show Fri and the City when Charlotte became addicted character with the toy. The exaggerated episode makes us question the use that can trigger a sexual compulsion, pleasure for pleasure. Ideally, the object to be used with emotional wisdom. There is a third type, which is anal vibrator "guides the sexologist.

She also adds that these toys are not only used by women who do not have a mate. Also they are recommended to spice things up to two and couple of old age, when man begins to have difficulty in erection. They bring more pleasure to orgasm.

However, according to the expert, when used without the presence of a companion can point out the lack of exchange of caresses and kisses that usually follows its use, generating a sadness because of the circumstances, going through a solitary act. In this case, the recommendation for women is to feel at ease, either in bed or in the bath for example, may be associated with its use to erotic films.

"We must emphasize that this practice is not something shameful, taboo as it is understood today, need not be kept secret. There are cases where the vibrators are recommended by doctors in cases of erectile dysfunction or difficulty reaching orgasm, thus maintaining the functionality of the vagina. We must, however, take some care when buying, pay attention on the vibrator material, clean it with mild soap, use lubricant and remember that it is personal and not transferable "Marcia alert.

In office practice we observed that the low frequency or absence of orgasm, causes frustration in women and may even lead some women to depression. For this reason it is increasingly recommended, without exaggeration, to keep alive the feeling of pleasure in women, concludes the consultant.